Rosie's Reflections

Defining Date Night

Not everyone can fly to Paris for dinner on date night. As romantic as it sounds, the truth is a couple doesn't have to spend a fortune to keep the spark glowing in a solid relationship. In fact, they don't have to leave the comfort of home.

The concept of date night for married couples has been around for many years. It is a tradition worth including in your relationship and can cost as little as a smile and a commitment of time.

Setting aside time to spend together, without interruptions involving life's daily concerns, gives couples the chance to reconnect and validate all the reasons that brought them together in the first place.

Dating before marriage includes simple considerations like dressing to impress, focusing all your attention on your partner and showing them they are the most important person in your life. These same considerations can be included in dates between married couples to bring a positive boost to relationships.

Successful partnerships include shared responsibilities and willingness to compromise. Both members can and should contribute to date night by taking turns planning activities and suggesting ideas.

Here are some suggestions to help you get started. If you have children, get them into bed early. This allows for time to touch base with each other at the end of the day. Turn off the television and talk, or watch a show or movie together. Activities can be the same activities you enjoyed before your marriage commitment. What is important is to continue to do them together.

From newlyweds to couples who have spent many years together, successful relationships are measured  by consistent appreciation and love of one another.

People show their love in individual ways. You might be a gift giver or a hugger. Maybe you enjoy doing things for your partner or spending time with them. It may be as simple as saying those three little words. Here is an easy test to help you discover your personal style. Consider the following statements and fill in the blanks.

- I know my partner loves me when he/she __________________.

- I know I love my partner when I ______________________.

Extravagant or elementary; there is no right or wrong way to define date night. A little quality time goes a long way to help you recapture and renew romance on a regular basis.